If Life was to be mathematically represented, then relationships would head the list under variables. There is nothing as unpredictable as relationships, which bear the brunt of demands and expectations. Yet, there are just a few relationships which stand the test of time. The bond between a mother and child is just that. Here we have our Uncommon writer Pragyan Behera, with five specially composed sets of lyrical poems ‘What my mother told me’.
The stark simplicity of the lines, which exude the fragrance of the closeness of this bond, is really appealing.
1. A little baby, swaddled in clothes, feels safe and loved in the reassuring words and touch of the arms that cradle it. Pragyan remembers that eternal promise of a love and protection that knows no limits.
My mother she told me,
A twenty years ago,
that I am her girl,
precious than them all.
She will protect me
like I do, my doll.
2. The seeds of self-esteem are sown early in life by parents. When children know for sure that they are cared for and loved unconditionally, they grow into strong confident individuals.
My mother she told me,
A fifteen years ago,
that I am a girl,
despite my colour,
I am fairest of them all.
She thinks me pretty
even when the rest may not.
3. Every woman remembers the day, puberty entered her life with that first red stain. The confusing blend of feelings of anxiety, fear, and often shame. But the gentle presence of the mother’s calming words serves to sooth the young girl’s anxiety in a way nothing else can.
My mother she told me,
A ten years ago,
that I am a girl
and I must never be ashamed.
The red stain on my couture
can never be
brighter than my future.
4. As we grow older, we begin to see things differently around us and differences of opinion creep up between our parents and us. But if beyond all that we still realize that the love is ever strong and intense, there can be no greater treasure to cherish.
My mother she told me,
a five years ago,
you are now an adult.
Disheartens me, it does
that we can’t seem to agree on much.
You are beautiful nonetheless
and I love you all that much.
5. Seeing her little baby fly the nest after finding her wings, is one of the most difficult experiences for a mother. The first instinct to care and protect her child, has to be over ridden by the needs of her child to find her way in the world. Yet, with the practical wisdom that only a mother can give, the individual can step out ready to brave any storm or challenge.
My mother she told me a few days ago,
I said so much yet still so less.
It’s a big bad world and I tried my best.
I couldn’t keep you here
when the sky was your nest.
The day you would hold your own,
you will step in my shoes, worn.
You will be torn between extremes,
being a mother, that’s how it feels.
I am afraid
you aren’t prepared.
I am afraid
you’ll be damaged.
But everytime you get back up,
my spirit mends,
my pride has no end,
you’ll do good
and your fate is sure to bend.
These poems must have definitely reached out to your hearts. They are more than words- they are quiet assertions of love, security and faith instilled in the child by her mother. What better tribute can a mother receive!
About the writer:
Pragyan Behera is a Psychology Major and a film graduate from Symbiosis International University, Pune. She is also a Performing Artist, dancer and a model too.
She describes herself as‘a perpetually positive person, a powerhouse of energy and quirky.’
She runs a blog which is her take on fashion, food, dance and art.
You can also follow her on Instagram @pliepalazzo
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